Can you ever truly date someone a friend slept with and/or dated? In essence, someone who "smashed the homie?" Why or why not? Can people get passed that sort of obstacle?
It just depends on to what level they were together. If they just messed around and nothing else came about. Now if they dated, I wouldn't pursue anything afterwards. But smashed, I'll think about it.
I don't think I could date someone who I know my friend(s) has/have slept with. I feel like that would make me really uncomfortable. I feel like most of my guy friends don't have an issue with that sort of thing, but I just don't get it.
naw. you can't date a girl your boy hit. we can't get pass that kinda thing. only way it works is if i'm not friends with dude anymore otherwise every time i see him, i'm thinking of how he smashed on my girl. not a good look
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It just depends on to what level they were together. If they just messed around and nothing else came about. Now if they dated, I wouldn't pursue anything afterwards. But smashed, I'll think about it.
ReplyDeleteI don't think I could date someone who I know my friend(s) has/have slept with. I feel like that would make me really uncomfortable. I feel like most of my guy friends don't have an issue with that sort of thing, but I just don't get it.
ReplyDeletenaw. you can't date a girl your boy hit. we can't get pass that kinda thing. only way it works is if i'm not friends with dude anymore otherwise every time i see him, i'm thinking of how he smashed on my girl. not a good look
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